Initiative on Women and Retirement and Divorce

About the Initiative

Every year, the Pension Rights Center hears from thousands of people who have questions about their retirement benefits. One of five of these callers asks about dividing benefits at divorce. A majority of individuals who reach out to us for this type of help are older women going through divorce. But this issue affects all spouses going through divorce, regardless of their age.

The fact is, retirement benefits – both 401(k)-type benefits and pension benefits – are considered, in most states, to be martial property earned during the marriage that can be divided upon divorce.

Don’t leave these benefits on the table. Retirement benefits may be the most valuable financial assets in a marriage and knowing how to secure a share of these benefits may be critical to your financial future.

The Pension Rights Center launched the Initiative on Women and Retirement at Divorce to ensure that people going through a divorce know the basics of how to get a share of their spouse’s retirement benefits (such as 401(k)-type plans and pension benefits), to address obstacles they may face, and to help make the process easier for everyone. The Initiative is a common ground project that has brought together a diverse array of stakeholders – retiree organizations, women’s groups, pension plans, employers, financial institutions, family attorneys, and judges – to work together to tackle this issue.

The Initiative has two main goals: (1) Create and disseminate materials to increase public awareness about the importance of dividing benefits at divorce and to educate spouses about the information they need to know to protect themselves, including obtaining a special legal document called a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) and (2) to engage and train legal services attorneys and other professionals about drafting QDROS, the key legal document needed under federal law to divide private pensions and 401(k)s.

Note the information here only applies to the division of retirement benefits under private sector retirement plans (through companies that offer them). If your spouse earned benefits under federal, state, or local government plans, there will be other (though similar procedures) you would need to follow.

The Basic Facts you should know about QDROs (from our At a Glance fact sheet)

  • To get a share of your spouse’s retirement benefits, it may not be enough to just have them in a divorce decree.
  • Under federal law, you need a special document called a qualified domestic relations order (QDRO) that requires a retirement plan to pay you a share of your spouse’s earned pension or retirement benefits.
  • The QDRO is typically a separate document in addition to the divorce decree (but something that can be incorporated as part of the divorce decree).

Why Getting a Share of Retirement Benefits Matters:

  • Retirement benefits can mean the difference between a financially secure future and just scraping by.
  • Older women are more vulnerable as “gray divorces” (divorces among older couples) are on the rise.
  • Survivors of domestic violence face unique retirement security challenges.
  • Women over 65 are nearly twice as likely as men to face poverty in old age.

Why do People Struggle to Obtain Retirement Benefits at Divorce?

In some cases, the retirement benefit simply wasn’t addressed at the time of divorce, because retirement seemed far away and was not made a priority. Sometimes we learn that the benefit-earning spouse had failed to properly disclose the existence of some or all retirement assets. Or maybe the spouse’s lawyer just didn’t know to even ask about the retirement benefits. In far too many cases, people are not receiving what they were legally awarded by their divorce decrees because federal law requires them to go through additional, difficult-to-navigate steps to obtain a QDRO to make sure they get the benefits they were awarded at divorce.

Our Partners

Organizations that have participated in the Initiative include:

AARP

American Retirement Association

Bank of America

Chemtob Moss Forman & Beyda, LLP

Fire & Light Consulting

Legal Counsel for the Elderly

National Caucus and Center on Black Aging, Inc. (NCBA)

National Center for State Courts

National Council of Juvenile and Family Court Judges Reno, NV

National Women’s Law Center

TIAA

Western States Pension Assistance Project

Women’s Institute for a Secure Retirement

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